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What Patrick Knew That Most Leaders Never Learn

Most people celebrating St. Patrick’s Day today couldn’t tell you much about the man behind the shamrock. They know the colour green. They know Ireland. They might know snakes.

Here’s what they don’t know: Patrick wasn’t Irish.

He was a teenager from Roman Britain when Irish raiders kidnapped him and sold him into slavery. He spent six years alone on a hillside in Ireland, tending sheep, cold and forgotten. Then he escaped, made it home — and went back.

That decision is the whole story.


Character Before Competence

Leadership literature loves a good framework. Five steps to this. Three habits of that. What it rarely talks about is what Patrick understood instinctively: who you are when no one is watching is who you will be when everyone is.

Six years of slavery didn’t produce a bitter man. They produced a formed one.

Patrick’s years of hardship weren’t a detour from his calling — they were the preparation. The loneliness deepened his prayer life. The powerlessness cultivated humility. The suffering stripped away every motive except the one that mattered.

Most leaders want the influence without the formation. Patrick got the formation first. The influence followed.


He Went Back

This is the move that separates Patrick from nearly every leader I’ve ever studied.

He escaped Ireland. He was free. He had every reason — and every right — to never think about that island again. Instead, he had a dream in which he heard the Irish people calling him to return. And he went.

Not because it was safe. Not because it was strategic. Because it was his.

Calling-driven leadership and career-driven leadership look similar on the outside. Both produce activity, results, even impact. But when the cost goes up — when the assignment gets hard, when the opposition stiffens, when it would be entirely reasonable to walk away — only one of them stays.

Patrick stayed because he wasn’t building a career. He was answering a call.


He Didn’t Lead Alone

Patrick didn’t build an institution. He built a community.

The Celtic model of leadership that Patrick embodied was relational at its core — small bands of people moving together, sharing life, extending the mission not through hierarchy but through belonging. He formed clann.

There’s something countercultural in that today. We measure leaders by their platform, their reach, their numbers. Patrick measured his work by whether people were genuinely changed — and whether they, in turn, changed others.

The leaders I most respect aren’t the ones with the biggest stages. They’re the ones with the deepest roots — people who know and are known, who lead from inside a web of real relationship rather than above it.


The Question Patrick Leaves You With

Here’s where I want to leave you — not with a technique, but with a mirror.

Patrick went back to the place of his suffering and made it the place of his greatest contribution. That is not a coincidence. That is a pattern.

What is the hard place you’ve been avoiding? The hard conversation you keep deferring? The assignment that feels too costly, too uncomfortable, too much like going back to something you’d rather leave behind?

It may be precisely the thing you’re meant to walk toward.

That’s what I wrote about in Lead Like a Saint. Not a hagiography of a historical figure, but an honest look at what it means to lead from character, from calling, and from the kind of courage that doesn’t make headlines but does change lives.

Patrick didn’t set out to become a saint. He set out to be faithful.

That’s still the best leadership model I know.


Lead Like a Saint is available now. And if you are interested in hearing about my upcoming leadership tours in Ireland — the actual places where Patrick walked — head to this link for a chat, or email me at tours+carson@carsonpue.com. Happy St. Patrick’s Day.

Baby Boomers and Faith: Finding Sanctuary in Aging

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A significant number of people belonging to the Baby Boomer generation are individuals of Christian faith seeking a safe space to understand and navigate the challenges and joys of aging. As we age, we experience various transitions – from changes in our health, family dynamics to shifts in our life’s purpose. It’s an inevitable part of life that can feel overwhelming at times. However, there’s solace to be found in shared experiences and mutual understanding. One such sanctuary is the Better with Age retreat offered by Barnabas Landing.

Understanding The Shifts

As we grow older, numerous transitions come into play. We find ourselves transitioning into the ’empty nest’ phase as our children grow up and start families of their own. This shift can bring about both a sense of pride in our children’s independence and a feeling of loss as the home becomes quieter.

Health changes are another common aspect of aging. Our bodies, after years of service, begin to demand more care and attention. Adjusting to these changes can be daunting, but it’s not a journey one has to undertake alone.

Re-evaluating life’s purpose and values also becomes crucial as career and family-raising move into the rearview mirror. The question of ‘what now?’ often arises, leading to introspection and, sometimes, reinvention.

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A Safe Haven at Barnabas Landing

The Better with Age retreat at Barnabas Landing is a haven for Baby Boomers navigating these transitions. The retreat will take place from April 8 – 11, 2024, and is led by Carson and Glenda Pue. Carson is an executive mentor, podcaster and author, and Glenda, with her vast experience working with children with special needs and their families, together offer a unique perspective on the challenges and joys of aging. Both lost their spouses and are remarried and navigating growing older together. They will be joined by Dr. Paul Pearce, a longtime friend and former director of the Centre for Healthy Aging and Transitions.

The retreat is all-inclusive and priced at $440 per person based on two sharing or $560 for single occupancy, and revolves around the theme of transition. You will come away feeling like you have had a mini-vacation with the exquisite meals at Barnabas, the comfortable rooms and the serenity of the view itself. It also offers workshops on topics such as losing a spouse, health changes, ageless connections, and aging with purpose.

Participants can join others in similar life stages to think, learn, and reflect together about how to live well and leave a lasting legacy through their words, actions, and faith. It’s an opportunity to share experiences, gain new insights, and find solace in the shared journey of aging.

The Final Word

Growing older does not have to be a solitary journey. Places like Barnabas Landing provide a safe space for Baby Boomers of faith to discuss, learn, and support each other through the transitions that come with aging, turning what might seem daunting into an enriching experience filled with growth and understanding.

For more information about the Better with Age retreat, visit Barnabas Landing or reach out to Evelyn at info@barnabaslanding.com.